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YOU (and only you) Have the Power to Change YOUR Life, and I Can Help!

If you are ready to:

1) Take full responsibility for you and your results.

2) Make positive changes in your life. relationships and career.

3) Take DAILY ACTION to accomplish your goals make your dreams your reality.

Welcome to my site! I'm Tamara Hartley, I’m a speaker, author, an advice columnist and a coach. I'm also a wife, mother of five and a busy entrepreneur with multiple business endeavors. 

We all have dreams and things we want to do in this lifetime. But sometimes life happens and we feel like we have to put our dreams on hold or on the back burner. Or we feel stuck because we don't know what to do or where to start.

I’ve been there! And then I realized that I only have one life to live. And despite my responsibilities and commitments to my husband, children and other family members, I needed to pursue my own dreams. 

Along my journey, I discovered that with the right Balance, Support, Determination and ACTION, every dream is possible. My dreams are possible...ALL OF THEM!

And I've had the amazing opportunity to live many of my own dreams including: sharing a stage with Les Brown, the world’s No.1 motivational speaker. I've been able to coach and teach clients from around the world. I've also traveled the country studying and documenting success, and have met many of our country's best and brightest stars. And I'm still pursuing new goals and new dreams.

You too can accomplish your goals and live your dreams, and it all starts with you taking back control of your Life, Relationships and Career so that they have the time and energy to focus on you and accomplish your goals.

By sharing my processes and lessons learned, as well as the formulas for success I've discovered along the way, I want to inspire and empower you to pursue your dreams, whatever those dreams may be. You may not want to be a speaker, an author or a coach. And maybe you don’t want to run your own business. Maybe you want to climb the corporate ladder and get the corner office, or go back to school to start or finish your degree and switch careers all together. Whatever your dream is, I'm here to help you make it happen! I'm here to help you take back control of your Life, Relationships and Career and give you the help, tools and support you need to finally make your dreams your reality.


Discover practical tips, strategies,and ACTION steps you can implement today!


Have a question or need advice in your life, relationship or career...Ask Tamara!


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and take the necessary steps you need to take to
finally move you from where you are to where you
really want to be. As a testament to proven results,
my clients dubbed me the How-To Coach."