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2) Make positive changes in your life. relationships and career.

3) Take DAILY ACTION to accomplish your goals make your dreams your reality.

Welcome to my site! I'm Tamara Hartley, I’m a speaker, author, an advice columnist and a coach. I'm also a wife, mother of five and a busy entrepreneur with multiple business endeavors. 

We all have dreams and things we want to do in this lifetime. But sometimes life happens and we feel like we have to put our dreams on hold or on the back burner. Or we feel stuck because we don't know what to do or where to start.

I’ve been where you are! I had my first child when I was 16, yet I still graduated 3rd in my class and attended Howard University. Yes, I took my daughter with me! I've been married and divorced. And as a single mother of four, I completed my master's degree. So, I know first-hand about juggling life, relationships and career. I also know a thing or two about overcoming obstacles to achieve my goals and live my dreams. These are the real-life stories and experiences I share to inspire, help, encourage and empower others.

Like me, you too can accomplish any goal and live your dreams, and it all starts with you taking back control of your Life, Relationships and Career so that they have the time and energy to focus on you and take the necessary action to accomplish your goals.

By sharing my processes and lessons learned, as well as the formulas for success I've discovered along the way, I want to inspire and empower you to accomplish your goals and pursue your dream, whatever that dream may be. Your dream may be different than mine and different than the next person, but it's still yours! DON'T GIVE UP! And I'm here to help you make it happen and give you the help and support you need to finally make your dream your reality.

 I've had the amazing opportunity to live many of my dreams including: Becoming an author; Sharing the stage with Les Brown, the world’s No.1 motivational speaker; and coaching and teaching clients from around the world. I've also traveled the country studying and documenting success, and have met many of our country's best and brightest stars. And I'm still pursuing new goals and new dreams.


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